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Service
There is an aspect of the BDSM D/s world called “service.” Â This, like everything else, means different things to different people. Â In general it usually refers to a dynamic or aspect of a dynamic in which the submissive does a type of service for the dominant… like… housekeeping, cooking meals, bringing drinks and rubbing feet, even serving tea in a very formal tea service. So, service… can mean a lot of things. Â And some subs and doms don’t prefer or engage in any service activities. Â Or some submissives follow orders to do domestic chores but don’t identify it as “service”. Â But really, it doesn’t matter to me what other people…
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Accepting Service
I pick at the chicken salad he just made me. It’s 3 A.M. He realized I hadn’t eaten all day, cast me a searing look and headed for the kitchen – over my stringent objections that I didn’t need anything, he didn’t have to get up, I was fine, I could do it myself… He finally told me to be a good dominant and shut up.