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Quote of the Day – August 7, 2012

Holding on to anger is like grasping a hot coal with the intent of throwing it at someone else; you are the one who gets burned. ~Buddha

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August 8, 2012
Moments with Sir, Personal Journal

Rain – Moments with Sir

This story references this post: Shroedinger’s Rain. I could hear him approach me, and I flinched.  “I don’t want to be touched!  Please…” Sir stopped, one hand already outstretched to…

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July 18, 2017
Personal Journal

Punishment (wink wink)

I had an interesting conversation with my therapist today.  Despite me explaining this dynamic multiple times over our years together, she has persisted in a misunderstanding of what a punishment…

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January 12, 2018
  • Poem of the Day

    November 5, 2012 / 0 Comments

    Teach me, please…

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  • Quote of the Day – November 5, 2012

    November 5, 2012 / 0 Comments

    Selfishness is not living as one wishes to live, it is asking others to live as one wishes to live. ~ Oscar Wilde

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  • Doing everything right…

    November 3, 2012 / 4 Comments

    And still failing.

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  • Quote of the Day – Nov. 1

    November 1, 2012 / 0 Comments

    Good people are good because they’ve come to wisdom through failure. ~ William Saroyan

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  • Still me…

    October 30, 2012 / 0 Comments

    For anyone who might have wondered after my last post if I have lost my mind, been captured by shape-shifting aliens (though they wouldn’t even have to be shape-shifting, just capable of using a keyboard…), been seduced by a cult, or in any other way thinking thoughts that someone ought to call out the men with butterfly nets…  I’m still me! 

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  • Productivity

    October 25, 2012 / 2 Comments

    Oh therapy blog, how I love thee…

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  • I slept with my ex…

    October 25, 2012 / 0 Comments

    Yep. Sigh…

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  • Poem of the Day

    October 24, 2012 / 0 Comments

    I may be…

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  • For those keeping track…

    October 22, 2012 / 2 Comments

    Sorry to everybody I owe emails to, and comments I haven’t responded to. I had a better day today.  Really doing quite a lot better.  Then literally…six minutes ago…everything crashed.

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  • I am not a switch…

    October 21, 2012 / 1 Comment

    I have said it so many times… I picture myself Nixon-esque in my denial.  And maybe equally dishonest…  Although not as intentionally as he was.

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