Other People’s Blogs

So the problem with reading other people’s blogs about BDSM is… inevitably I will run across something that makes me crazy.  Probably because, you know, people.  But just recently I was reading a submissive woman’s blog and she had a “guest post” by a male dominant about what dominants need from their submissives.

It was fine.  For him.  I’m sure.

Of course, he didn’t phrase it as “This is what I need from a submissive relationship.”  He framed it as if this was the way to be a submissive.

And it made me doubt myself.

And it made me doubt my relationship.

And it made me question all kinds of things.

And then I showed Sir.

And he rolled his eyes.

Apparently Sir rejects the determination of his (as a male dominant) needs in a relationship with a submissive being declared for him by some rando dude on the internet.

I’m not sure why I can’t be more like Sir.

I want the “roll eyes and walk away unaffected” super power.

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